EMDR Therapy for Trauma & Anxiety: Serving Florida, Texas + Beyond
because logic hasn’t made it go away
healing the stuck stuff without having to talk it to death
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a powerful, research-backed trauma therapy that helps your brain and nervous system process painful or confusing experiences that haven’t fully healed - even if you’ve already tried to talk through them before in therapy.
It’s especially helpful if you feel like you logically know you’re okay… but something in your body or emotions still isn’t convinced. Maybe your anxiety keeps flaring up. Maybe you keep overworking, people-pleasing, or numbing out even when you know better. EMDR helps you get to the root of that stuckness, without having to rehash every detail.
Whether it’s a specific event (like a breakup, accident, assault, abuse, or betrayal) or something more chronic and subtle (like childhood emotional neglect, spiritual wounding, or years of perfectionism and emotional monitoring), EMDR helps untangle those internal loops and release the emotional charge around them - so you can finally move forward with clarity and ease.
when emdr might be what you need:
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Sometimes there’s a clear “before and after” moment that your mind and body never fully moved on from, even if part of you feels like you should have by now. Single-incident trauma can include experiences like sexual assault, a car accident, medical trauma, betrayal, a painful breakup, a sudden loss, a frightening panic attack, or another moment that left you feeling unsafe, powerless, or deeply shaken.
You may notice yourself feeling emotionally reactive, hypervigilant, anxious, numb, easily triggered, or stuck replaying parts of the experience even when you’re trying hard not to think about it.
EMDR therapy helps your brain and nervous system fully process what happened so the memory no longer feels like something your body is still actively surviving.
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Relationship and betrayal trauma can come from experiences like infidelity, emotionally manipulative relationships, abandonment, chronic inconsistency, narcissistic dynamics, friendship ruptures, or repeatedly feeling unseen, unsafe, or emotionally alone in important relationships.
These wounds often show up as anxiety, overthinking, difficulty trusting, emotional reactivity, irritability, fear of abandonment, people-pleasing, or feeling stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns even when you logically understand what’s happening.
EMDR therapy helps process the underlying relational wounds so your nervous system no longer reacts as though the betrayal, rejection, or emotional unsafety is still actively happening in the present.
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Sexual trauma can include experiences such as sexual assault, coercion, unwanted sexual contact, boundary violations, molestation, or situations where consent was unclear or not respected, whether recent or from the past.
You may notice symptoms like anxiety, shame, intrusive memories or dreams, body-based distress, avoidance of intimacy, difficulty feeling safe in your body, or emotional numbness.
EMDR therapy helps process these experiences so your nervous system can release the stored threat response, reducing emotional intensity and supporting a greater sense of safety, agency, and connection to your body.
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Missionary and cross-cultural trauma can come from experiences such as unsafe or high-stress living conditions abroad, medical emergencies with limited resources, political instability, burnout, team or organizational conflict, cultural isolation, repeated transitions, or the emotional strain of ongoing goodbyes and displacement.
You may notice symptoms like chronic anxiety, exhaustion, hypervigilance, difficulty adjusting back to U.S. culture, feeling disconnected from others, identity confusion, spiritual questioning or distress in your faith, or past traumas being reactivated in ways that interfere with current ministry roles and responsibilities.
EMDR therapy can help process both the acute and cumulative stress of cross-cultural life so your nervous system can settle, past experiences feel less activating, and you can feel more grounded, integrated, and present in your current season of life and calling.
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Medical and health anxiety can include persistent fears about illness, body sensations that feel alarming or hard to ignore, past medical scares, intrusive thoughts about contamination or disease, or living in a constant state of “what if something is wrong with me.”
You may notice symptoms like frequent body-checking, time-consuming researching, spiraling anxiety after physical sensations, reassurance-seeking, difficulty trusting your body, or obsessive worry that interferes with daily life even when medical providers have reassured you.
EMDR therapy can help process the underlying experiences and triggers that keep your nervous system stuck in a threat-response loop, making it easier to relate to your body and health concerns with more stability and less reactivity.
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Performance anxiety can show up in undergrad and graduate students, athletes, and young professionals who feel intense pressure to succeed in academics, sports, work presentations, interviews, or building something of their own, often alongside a deep fear of failure, judgment, or not being “enough.”
You may notice symptoms like overthinking, procrastination, perfectionism, physical anxiety before big events, difficulty concentrating, avoidance of opportunities, or feeling like your confidence doesn’t match your actual abilities.
EMDR therapy can help process the underlying experiences and beliefs driving this anxiety so your nervous system feels less threatened by performance situations, allowing you to show up with greater confidence, flexibility, and steadiness under pressure.
what to expect:
Clinical depth, with careful pacing.
Let’s be clear: EMDR therapy should not feel overwhelming or emotionally unsafe.
Whether you’re doing virtual EMDR therapy or meeting in person near Indian Rocks Beach, we’ll move at a pace that feels grounded and manageable. Before processing difficult memories, we’ll focus on building emotional safety, nervous system regulation, and practical coping tools so you feel more able to stay present without spiraling, shutting down, or becoming emotionally flooded.
When you’re ready, we’ll collaboratively identify memory targets and approach them in a way that feels intentional and manageable. I also integrate ego states therapy (also called parts work) to help the different parts of you, especially the younger, protective, or overwhelmed parts, feel seen, safe, and understood rather than pushed aside.
Throughout the process, I also use principles from polyvagal theory to pay attention to your nervous system and adjust as needed. The goal is not to force yourself through painful experiences, but to help your mind and body process them in a way that actually creates lasting healing.
finding the right emdr format for you:
EMDR therapy can be structured in different formats depending on your needs, goals, and readiness for trauma processing. Below are the EMDR options I offer so we can tailor the approach to fit your symptoms, history, and desired pace of care.
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A standard 53-minute EMDR session is a weekly, structured format that offers ongoing support at a gradual, lower-intensity pace, making it a good fit for clients who prefer steady, long-term trauma work alongside regular therapeutic support. Because sessions are spaced weekly, EMDR processing is naturally opened and closed each time, and progress can be interrupted by the rhythm of session breaks as well as life stressors that may arise between sessions and require attention or stabilization. This format can be effective, but it may be less efficient for deeper or more complex trauma work compared to more intensive EMDR options.
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An extended EMDR therapy session (80–110 minutes) is a weekly format that offers more time for EMDR processing within a single appointment, allowing for deeper continuity and more complete work across EMDR phases without as much interruption from frequent stopping and restarting. It is a good fit for clients who want ongoing weekly support but also prefer a more efficient, lower-disruption pace of trauma processing than a standard 53-minute session can provide. This extended format can support more sustained reprocessing work while still maintaining a consistent, weekly therapeutic rhythm.
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EMDR Intensive Days (3-hour half-day or 6-hour full-day sessions) are a focused, high-intensity format designed for those who are ready to engage in deeper trauma processing in a condensed timeframe. This approach is often a good fit for individuals who are used to functioning at a high level while carrying significant internal distress, have already engaged in prior therapy, and are no longer seeking a slow, open-ended weekly process.
Intensives are well-suited for those who value depth, privacy, and efficiency and are ready to dedicate uninterrupted time and energy to their healing. With longer sessions (typically 2–5 full-day sessions total), there is more continuity of processing, allowing the work to move forward without repeatedly having to close and restart. This helps the nervous system stay engaged long enough to settle in, process material more fully, and integrate in real time.
Rather than “doing more therapy,” this format is about creating enough sustained space for meaningful work to unfold in a more complete and connected way. It is not appropriate for everyone, and suitability is determined based on stability, readiness, and clinical appropriateness for extended trauma processing.
some FAQs to get us started:
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Yes! All of my EMDR sessions are currently offered virtually. While EMDR started as an in-person therapy, it’s highly adaptable for virtual work. We’ll use tools like bilateral audio, tapping, or eye movements using your screen - whatever feels most natural and effective for you. You don’t need any special equipment (just a private space and good Wi-Fi), and I’ll guide you through every step so it feels safe, contained, and productive.
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It depends. Some people find relief after 5-10, 53-minute reprocessing sessions, while others take more time - especially if we’re working with complex trauma, layered memories, or parts work. We’ll take it slow, build trust, and move at a pace that feels right for your system.
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The 53-minute standard EMDR sessions are the only format eligible for insurance billing. All other session formats will need to be billed as private pay. If you have out-of-network mental health benefits, I can also provide you with a Superbill, no matter the session format, and you may be able to get some reimbursement from your insurance provider.
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Yes! As long as the laws of your country give me the legal thumbs up to work with you, then I frequently do virtual EMDR therapy with missionaries and expats living internationally. Some countries have restrictions on receiving therapy from someone not licensed in their country, but many don’t.
If you're unsure, reach out and I will help you figure out whether it's possible based on where you're located. I love working with cross-cultural workers, and we’ll make sure to do it in a way that’s ethical, spiritually attuned, and legally sound.
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Some people do, but you definitely don’t have to. One of the great things about EMDR is that it doesn’t require you to verbally walk through every part of your trauma. As long as you know what memory we’re targeting and are able to give me an overview of that, then we can let your brain do the work, without needing to retell everything out loud.
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Then we slow it down. A big part of my approach is making sure your nervous system is safe and steady - not retraumatized. There are actually 8 different phases of EMDR, and usually when we think of EMDR, we are only thinking of 3 of those phases. When things feel intense, we’ll really hone in on the preparation phases of EMDR. This means we’ll focus on building your confidence in regulation skills, getting to know your nervous system’s patterns, and integrating ego states work (aka parts work, or inner child work) before we dive into the deeper stuff.
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Maybe a little. It’s common to feel tired, emotionally tender, or even a little foggy the rest of the day - your brain is doing big work! Some people notice dreams, body sensations, or unexpected memories popping up afterward, too. We’ll talk through how to track all of that and care for yourself between sessions so that even if you feel a little weird, you are still completely stable and in control.
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If it’s still bothering you, it’s big enough.
EMDR isn’t just for life-altering events - it’s also for the “smaller” moments that quietly shaped how you see yourself, others, or the world. That one teacher’s comment. The way a friend left. The subtle rejection that still stings years later. You don’t have to justify why something hurt in order for it to matter.
If your brain keeps looping it, there’s a reason, and it’s worth taking the time to work with that.
investment in your care:
Standard EMDR Session (53 mins)
$145
Standard, weekly, 53-minute sessions supporting gradual, ongoing EMDR processing within a consistent therapeutic rhythm.
*This is the only format eligible for insurance billing when coverage is available.
Extended EMDR Session (80 / 110 mins)
$230 / $300
Extended, weekly, 80-110 minute sessions allowing for deeper continuity of processing and more complete work within a single appointment.
EMDR Intensive Half / Full Day (3hr / 6hr)
$480 / $1,050
EMDR Intensive Days are 3- or 6-hour extended sessions designed for focused, high-depth trauma processing in a condensed format, allowing for greater continuity of EMDR work without the stop-and-start disruption of weekly therapy.
schedule a free 15-minute EMDR consultation
A free 15-minute consultation is available for new clients to determine whether EMDR therapy is a good fit for your needs. During this call, we’ll briefly discuss what you’re looking for in therapy, I’ll answer any questions you have, and we’ll explore next steps if it feels like a good fit. No pressure, no commitment - just a real conversation to help you decide what feels right.
